How to Define a Successful Tutor-Student Relationship

September 12, 2013 admin Leave a Comment

**What are the 4 Es in Every Successful Tutor-Student Relationship**

Over the past two or three weeks I’ve been asked the same sort of questions during the initial consultation and assessment with prospective students and their parents. Interestingly, the questions and concerns seem to be centered around the same notions…and they are totally understandable!

Basically, they all come down to these two questions:

“What do you do?” and “How do you do it?”

Or, in even plainer English…and using a bit of today’s jargon:

“What is your secret sauce?”

Without giving away too much, I believe this video will answer these questions. Additionally, I hope this video will help other prospective students and their parents know what to look for when hiring the right tutor!

The Right Tutor

Who is the right tutor?

The 4 Es!

Experience – Is the prospective tutor a full-time professional or a part-timer?
Empathy – Does the prospective tutor relate well to your son or daughter?
Expertise – Is the prospective tutor a specialist with an established track record working with students with your child’s needs?
Excellence – Does the prospective tutor get results…can they point to specific examples?

If the prospective tutor can answer the questions related to The 4 Es to your complete satisfaction, then you are well on your way to establishing a solid relationship and achieving an excellent result.

If not…keep looking!

Professor John P. J. “Jack” Zajaros, Sr. or “Professor Z”
Westside Tutoring & Testing Services
Serving NE and North Central Ohio for More than 3 Decades
216-712-7004 (office)
440-821-7018 (mobile)

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Video: How to Hire the Best Tutor for Students Diagnosed with ADHD

August 3, 2013 admin Leave a Comment

Hiring the Best Tutor and a Steve Jobs Tribute

Written by Hugh MacLeod of Gapingvoid Art

A thought-provoking tribute written by a wonderfully warm and incredibly talented and provocative young artist!

If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you know why I’ve shared Hugh MacLeod’s brilliant tribute to Steve Jobs.

If you haven’t and don’t, please read on and take the time to watch the video posted below…and thank you for taking the time to visit Westside Tutoring and Testing Services’ blog!

Hiring a Professional Tutor for Students Diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

I’ve written and spoken at length about how important it is to hire a qualified tutor for your son or daughter, particularly if they have been diagnosed with ADHD, Asperger’s Syndrome, traumatic brain injury (TBI), or any other of the myriad learning disabilities currently recognized by medical science. If you are one of our many subscribers, here or on YouTube, then you may have noticed how very passionate I am about hiring a professional and qualified tutor. Hiring a qualified tutor is absolutely crucial for your child’s short and long term success.

Additionally, if you follow me here or elsewhere online then you know that I never use the phrase learning disability. In fact, I believe this is the very first time!

It’s a hard and fast rule with me: I use the term learning challenge(s), as opposed to learning disability. In particular, I do so when writing or speaking about how best to understand and deal with the myriad challenges parents and students face as they attempt to deal with ADHD—or any of the other learning challenges—and there is a reason!

In August’s newsletter, I will state my reasons for making the distinction between the label Learning Disability and the term Learning Challenge…and why it is so important we, as parents and educators, do so. The distinction? I gave you a hint in the preceding sentence!

For now, I will add this:

The difference, while seemingly insignificant, is profound and speaks to how we diagnose, perceive, address, treat (medically and socially), and educate children, and now adults, with ADHD. Sadly, many of the learning challenges we face, day in and day out, are little understood and inadequately addressed…at any level!

How can we understand and treat ADHD when many educators and doctors, the very individuals our children depend on for help, refuse to believe it’s real?

This is a Brain on ADHD: Any Questions?

If the individuals charged with understanding and addressing ADHD, in and out of the classroom, refuse to believe it’s a real condition (watch for an upcoming video and article sequence on this point), where do children and parents turn for help?

It’s no wonder so many children, with or without a formal ADHD diagnosis, are falling through the cracks!

No Child Left Behind?

Between the failure of our education system to adequately address ADHD-affected students and the barely-concealed skepticism, bordering on cynicism, many educators and physicians express, it’s a wonder our children get out of the gates at all.

Again, I will go in depth regarding all of the above and more in the August 15th newsletter.

Please stop back often and subscribe to our newsletter (see the subscription box, top-right sidepanel). New editions of the Westside Tutoring and Testing Services Newsletter are emailed on the 15th of the month.

Additionally, please subscribe to my YouTube channel, follow on Twitter, and “Like” our new Facebook page for more information on how best to recognize and address ADHD, Asperger’s Syndrome, etc.

Please take a few minutes to watch the following video (link or on this page – below):

How to Hire the Best Tutor for ADHD Diagnosed Students

After you’ve watched the video below, please take a moment to leave a comment. I’d really like to know what you think!

Additionally, if you’d be so kind as to leave a comment on YouTube, it would be much appreciated.

Thank you for taking the time to visit and for either being, or becoming, a subscriber!

Professor Z

Westside Tutoring and Testing Services
216-712-7004 (office)

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The Eye of the Storm Syndrome: Why Short Term Tutoring Rarely Works

November 2, 2012 admin Leave a Comment

Professional Tutoring vs Quick-Fix Tutoring

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The Eye of the Storm Syndrome

During the initial consultation and assessment, I warn new students and their parents about something I’ve come to know as The Eye of the Storm Syndrome.

The Eye of the Storm Syndrome is very common; and it is, in my opinion, the most difficult hurdle professional tutors have to overcome early in the tutor/student relationship.

Let’s get the Quick-Fix Tutoring out of the way first, though. Quick-Fix Tutoring is what we at Westside Tutoring and Testing Services call putting out fires. It should be fairly obvious what I mean by putting out fires…it’s simply dealing with whatever is next and, usually, what is causing the student the most trouble at the moment.

The Quick-Fix Tutor may be adequate in the short-run, hence the designation as a Quick-Fix Tutor, but they are generally not able to teach students the most important study skills of all:

How to study
How to read actively
How to manage time
How to research
How to outline chapters in order to prepare for an exam
How to think creatively
How to write creatively
How to teach himself or herself…not just during the current school year but long term – So he of she does not need either a professional tutor or one specializing in the quick-fix!

Just ask yourself any one of these very simple questions:

How many courses has your son or daughter had over the course of their entire educational experience that has actually taught him or her how to study…effectively?
STEM aside, if our kids cannot read critically, study actively using a system that works for them, and express themselves effectively…how far will they get?
Have you heard of the effects of primacy and recency?
Is your child overwhelmed by the sheer amount of material thrown at them day-in-and-day-out?

The above-mentioned questions, and skills, are just a few of the questions, skills, and issues a professional tutor and a professional tutoring organization will address with your child...must address…if they’re doing their job(s) right. And in all fairness, the quick-fix tutor will not have the time, or the skill, to address these issues. And again, in all fairness, that is not what they’re being hired for!

**So what is The Eye of the Storm? And what does it have to do with hiring a tutor?**

To understand The Eye of the Storm, let me walk you through an example. The names, schools, and all the rest are fictitious.

Jake and The Eye of the Storm

Jake Wilson is going into his sophomore year at St. Angelo’s High School for Boys. He comes from a middle-class family and has all the advantages. Everyone in Jake’s family understands the value of a good education and is committed to making sure all of the kids go to college. Not just college but a great school, one that will open doors once Jake graduates. Unfortunately, Jake struggled through his freshman year with a 1. 6 GPA; and, while there is no indication of ADD or ADHD, his parents are concerned and have decided not to wait until Jake struggles through another year before doing something about it.

Many parents are now doing what Jake’s mom and dad are doing, hiring a professional tutor for their son or daughter before they are drowning in bad grades, frustration, and depression. Proactive is the only way to be when it comes to a child’s education, particularly in this competitive world! Good grades and test scores are often the difference between college admission and not being able to attend college at all.

What if Jake fails to be admitted to Miami University (the only real institution in this story), the best public university in Ohio and the one almost every kid from Ohio dreams of attending? So, proactive is the only way to be and, much to his parents’ delight, Jake starts out with a bang!

Jake seems committed, and the professional tutoring he is getting in French, English and Grammar, Geometry, and World History are first rate…everything seems to be clicking. The proactive strategy seems to be paying off.

In fact, the proactive measures, including the hiring of a professional tutor, seem to have made Jake into a “new man!” Jake has worked his way from secretly feeling like something of a failure and being more than a little overwhelmed in his freshman year, to having a real sense of where he is going…all in just a few weeks!

All is good with the world, right?

Nope!

You see, Jake sailed through the initial wall of the storm with the help of his professional tutor!

And Jake was not only receiving academic help during his first few weeks back in school, he was receiving plenty of positive reinforcement, as well.

In fact, Jake received equal parts tutoring and positive reinforcement during each session. Yes, Jake is on his way to becoming a “new man,” but the supports were just now being put in place…and there was still a lot be done.

Jake was in The Eye of the Storm:

His grades were up
His confidence was up
He was taking on more responsibility at home
He appeared to be taking on more responsibility at school
He was being to feel he could go it alone and he was anxious to be his own man

All was right with the world!

You see, in Jake’s mind, and in his parents’ minds as well, the storm had passed. Additionally, Jake wanted more freedom, and mom and dad wouldn’t mind having a bit more money in the checking account. So it was agreed, Jake had made a complete turnaround and would no longer need the help of a professional tutor. If he did need a tutor, he could get the help of one of those quick-fix tutors who work for five bucks an hour…or maybe for free.

Remember: You get what you pay for!

Sure, there were a lot of five-buck-an-hour, quick-fix tutors around, and they wouldn’t require the sort of commitment or the sort of work that professional tutor required!

So all’s Jake with Jake, and he’s free to do his own thing!

Sadly, as the back wall of the storm approaches (i.e., more complex subject matter, term papers, essays, midterms, finals, etc.), Jake can’t bring himself to say anything to his mom or dad, he can’t bring himself to admit that he’s struggling again…because then he’d have to admit defeat. And that is something most students will never do!

The 12 Step programs define insanity as the act of doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.

If you ask me about The Eye of the Storm Syndrome and how it compares to The 12 Step definition of insanity, I’d say they’re a bit different. I believe there’s a great deal of wishful thinking: the teenage kind, Jake’s kind; and it’s combined with a sense of relief (i.e., finances, time, etc): the parental kind.

Ultimately, the trajectory of Jake’s sophomore year is based on faulty reasoning and not enough experience, which is understandable!

So what happened?

Jake ran into the back side of the storm. Consequently, getting Jake back on the track he was on (a track to all As and Bs), will cost much more time, money, and effort.

I have had a lot of Jake’s over the past 30 years!

I have worked with a lot of Jake’s parents too!

The saddest thing is that, even after all this time, parents still go down that road. Interestingly, I often tell parents and students about The Eye of the Storm Syndrome during the initial consultation and assessment, hoping it will make a difference. Sadly, they still fall victim to the Sirens’ call. It’s often due to a combination of factors, many I’ve mentioned above.

The saddest thing about Jake’s story?

Many, many times, the student and the parents, especially the parents, won’t admit they took a wrong turn, that they made a mistake. Consequently, they won’t return to the same tutor, whether it’s me or someone like me (in the same business). Sadly, that does even more damage because, as in Jake’s case, the student quite literally starts back at square one!

And that can be devastating for “Jake!”

Let me know if you have a Jake, I’d love to work with him. I specialize in working with gifted students and students diagnosed with ADD, ADHD, Asperger’s syndrome, and the like. Don’t hesitate to call!

I also tutor students who are just working through a difficult period. We work with students regardless of the subject matter of level.

Finally, we work with students preparing for the PSAT, SAT, LSAT, ACT, GRE, GED, ASVAB, and others. If you don’t see it, ask!

If you need help? Any subject, any level, please call!

NOTE: We do not pick up when with students but we check the voicemail often!

Professor John P. J. “Jack” Zajaros, Sr.
Westside Tutoring and Testing Services
Lakewood, Ohio 44107
216-712-7004 (office)
440-821-7018 (mobile – for quickest response)

PS, Please forgive any typos! The power and heat have been out for more than 4 days. We’ll proofread again in a day or so!

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Hiring a Professional Tutor and the Fram Oil Campaign: “Pay Me Now or Pay Me Later”

August 2, 2012 admin Leave a Comment

You can pay me now…

…or you can pay me later!

The same holds true for almost everything in life…but it is especially when it comes to teaching, tutoring, coaching, and even monitoring. Yes, there are a handful of people who are at the top of their game and give back, myself included. But it is also necessary to keep the lights on, feed our families, and keep a roof over their heads.

But I’m getting ahead of myself! Take a look at this blast from the past and then we’ll talk. Okay?

It’s interesting how many people think the ad campaign associated with the above-mentioned quote was a General Motors, Mr. Goodwrench campaign. Ultimately, it really doesn’t matter anymore because, like so many other unique selling phrases, it has grown out of the original context and has become part of our national culture.

“Pay me now or pay me later” has become one of those phrases everyone can relate to, a message that has outgrown its original intent.

Other phrases that speak to being cheap in the short run and having to pay a much greater price in the long run include:

“You get what you pay for!”

“Penny wise and pound foolish!”

This next one is one of my favorites:

“Jumping over $20 bills to pick up pennies!”

And here’s one that has all sorts of meanings and implications…but it also applies here:

“You reap what you sow!”

The purpose of the first part of this post is, or at least should be, transparent.

In fact, all you have to do is type in a few keywords and you’ll have a sense of the wide range in qualifications and fees for tutors in the Northeast and North Central Ohio areas; and, in particular, for tutors serving suburban Cleveland.

Ironically, I am usually not the first tutor most students see. However, in almost every instance, I am the last. Sadly, in to many instances I am the fourth or fifth tutor a struggling student has been subjected to before the full weight of “pay me now or pay me later” kicks in. If that makes the reader a bit uncomfortable, I apologize. Unfortunately, I see to many of the above-mentioned “tutors” advertising themselves as professionals when they are as far from it as one can possibly get and still keep a straight face.

Being sorta good at math and English in high school and/or college does not prepare a “tutor” to work with students who are failing one or more classes…with or without dealing with the added challenges associated with ADD, ADHD, Asperger’s syndrome, or worse!

And it certainly doesn’t justify wasting a student’s time and their parent’s money while they find that out!

Part II: Westside Tutoring and Testing Services Offers Professional ADD and ADHD Tutoring Services for Students throughout Suburban Cleveland and Northeast Ohio!

Westside Tutoring and Testing Services Specializes in Middle School and High School Students, Professional Tutor with More than 30 Years Experience

Westside Tutoring and Testing Services offers tutoring, mentoring, and coaching for students and student athletes from 5 to 65. Professor John P. J. “Jack” Zajaros, Sr. has been tutoring students for more than 3 decades.

This is a partial list of schools, school districts, and cities our students have come from. To list all of the students we have tutored over the years would be impossible:

Akron University
Amherst
Ashland University
Avon
Avon Lake
Bay Village
Beachwood
Bedford
Berea
BGSU Firelands
Brecksville
Broadview Heights
Brookpark
Case Western Reserve University
Cleveland
Cleveland Heights
Cleveland State University
Columbia Station
Cuyahoga Community College
Elyria
Fairview Park
Garfield Heights
Huron
Independence
John Carroll University
Kent State University
Lake Erie College
Lakeland Community College
Lakewood
Lorain
Lorain County Community College
Magnificat High School
Maple Heights
Medina
Middleburg Heights
Nordonia
North Olmsted
North Ridgeville
North Royalton
Olmsted Falls
Parma
Parma Heights
Rocky River
Saint Augustine’s Academy
Saint Edward’s High School
Saint Ignatius High School
Saint Joseph’s Academy
Seven Hills
Seville
Shaker Heights
Strongsville
University Heights
University School
Ursuline College
Vermilion
Westlake

And many, many more!

Professor John P. J. “Jack” Zajaros, Sr., “Professor Z” or “Jack” to most of his students, has tutored, mentored, and coached students from kindergarten through graduate and professional school in almost every subject you can think of.

Additionally, Professor Z has helped students study for and pass the following exams (again, a partial list):

GED
Nursing board exams and many of the classes leading up to graduation from nursing school and the exam
The PRAXIS series for individuals entering the teaching profession and seeking teacher certification
United States Armed Forces Aptitude Battery (ASVAB) for individuals attempting to enter the military and qualify for a better job or skill
Ohio Graduation Tests (OGT)
PSAT
SAT
ACT
GRE
LSAT
And so many more!

Professor Z has also helped students:

Overcome test anxiety – for students at every level, from middle school to medical school
Develop study skills – necessary to improve performance
Time management – in order to use time more efficiently
To qualify for scholarships and for participation – for athletics at the high school and college/university level
To meet eligibility requirements – GPA and SAT or ACT scores to qualify for NCAA eligibility

Some of the courses Professor Z has provided tutoring services for over the years include (K through professional school, as well as adult and post grad studies):

African-American Art
African-American Literature
Pre-Algebra
Algebra I
Algebra II
American Literature
Anatomy and Physiology (as well as Gross Anatomy)
Anthropology (Cultural, Biological, Forensic, and Physical Anthropology)
AP Courses in almost every discipline
Archaeology
Art History
Biology (all levels and sub disciplines)
British Literature
Chemistry
Civics
Earth Science
Ecology and Human Ecology
Economics – Macroeconomics and Microeconomics
Elementary Math
Elementary Science
Embryology and Vertebrate Embryology
English and English Composition
Environmental Science
Finance
French
Genetics and Micro Evolutionary Genetics
Geography and Physical Geography
Geometry
History (US History, European History, Russian History, Japanese History, Chinese History, Meso-American History, Roman History, Greek History, African Civilization and History, Egyptian History, World History, etc)
Honors Courses in almost every discipline
Latin
Literature – African-American Literature, American Literature, British Literature, etc.
Physiology
Political Science and US Government and Politics
Psychology
Spanish
Statistics

And again, much, much more!

Professor Zajaros has helped students with personal statements for competitive high school, undergraduate, graduate, and professional school admission…as well as helping with the application itself.

Westside Tutoring and Testing Services:

Is the logical outgrowth of a lifelong love for learning and teaching. Professor Zajaros’ son, John P. J. Zajaros, Jr. (April 21, 1976 – July 1, 2012), struggled throughout his life with the challenges presented as a result of ADHD. We know so much more about ADD, ADHD, and other learning challenges than we did 3 decades ago.

It has has been Professor Zajaros’ goal to reach and help as many students affected with ADD and ADHD as possible…to help as many children and adults as possible overcome this terrible learning disability and move on to a happy and productive life.

With the assistance of teachers, guidance counselors, and other support staff, Professor Zajaros has been able to reach hundreds of children over the years and will continue to do so for the foreseeable future.

In addition to ADD, ADHD, Asperger’s syndrome, and other learning challenges, Professor Z also works with Gifted students and so-called average students, there are no average students, who are struggling to bring their grades up in one or more courses and for any number of reasons.

If you, your son, or your daughter is in need of assistance, call Professor Zajaros today!

There is no time like the present and the longer you wait, the more time it will take. If you anticipate that you, your son, or your daughter is going to have problems with a specific subject or with a number of subjects, there is no time like the present to call for a consultation and assessment.

Call today for a free consultation and in depth assessment!

Professor John P. J. “Jack” Zajaros, Sr.
Westside Tutoring and Testing Services
Lakewood, Ohio 44107
216-712-7004 (office)
440-821-7018 (mobile)
Or email: TheProfessor@Westside-Tutoring.com

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Westside Tutoring: Every Student Succeeds – Guaranteed!

October 7, 2011 admin Leave a Comment

Westside Tutoring succeeds

even after other tutors and tutoring firms

have failed!

Westside Tutoring

Serves all of Northeastern and

North Central Ohio

Westside Tutoring specializes in working with students who have difficult learning and/or emotional hurdles to overcome! In other words, we help our students reach their full potential. Guaranteed!

Westside Tutoring students often rise to the top of their class, many times after other tutors and tutoring agencies, some of the biggest and most recognizable names in tutoring and test preparation, have fallen short…failing to deliver an acceptable outcome!

Westside Tutoring has helped hundreds of students succeed, often after they have already been through 3, 4, and even 5 tutors.

And we do it one student at a time!

We specialize in working with students who require a professional tutor with years of experience, a tutor willing, and able, to invest the time and energy necessary to secure, not just an acceptable outcome, a highly desirable one!

Westside Tutoring Areas of Specialization

Multiple tutors without a satisfactory outcome
Attention Deficit Disorder ADD
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder ADHD
Asperger’s Syndrome and other expressions of Autism
Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI)
Dyslexia
Undiagnosed learning difficulties
Anger Management Issues
Anxiety Issues (to include test anxiety)
Students returning to school after a prolonged absence due to illness or other health or behavioral issues
Homeschooled children with gaps in their education
Students who have been removed from school due to illness, general health, and/or behavioral issues and require a personal tutor
Students who are failing or have failed a class and require remedial work (tutoring) to catch up
Students who have been held back due to absence and/or performance issues

Check out our sister site

http://Westside-Tutoring.com

This is just one of many letters from satisfied clients. Additional references, and the associated documentation, available upon request.

Dear Jack,

In the middle of of the school year, my daughter lost her bearings in high school chemistry as the pace picked up and the assignments became more complex. My daughter couldn’t relate to the teacher’s learning style and presentation. The school’s student tutor for chemistry was a classmate of my daughter; my daughter was too embarrassed to work with him. My last encounter with chemistry was thirty years ago and hopelessly out of date. By the time we contacted you for tutoring, my daughter was failing her assignments and panicking.

You were wonderful the whole way. The day we called, you called us back. You met with my daughter the next day at our home. You assessed the situation, calmed everyone down, and put an immediate action plan in place. You renewed her confidence. You assessed her learning style and presented complex material in a way that made sense to her. Working together, my daughter had a very successful recovery and finished the class with an ‘A’ on her final.

Chemistry went from overwhelming to fascinating. We cannot thank you enough!

Evelyn W. (parent of Westlake HS student, Spring 2009)

Contact us today for a free, in-home consultation and assessment!

Professor John P. J. Zajaros, Sr., Professor Z, or “Jack”
Westside Tutoring and Test Preparation Services
Serving Northeast and North Central Ohio for 3 Decades!
440-821-7018

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